Thursday, December 11, 2014

Time for Another Celebration - Partnership


Tonight, I was voted in by the partnership of my firm to be a partner.  I wanted to share my joy with all of you.  I also want you to know that, if you fail the bar, your life is not over.  I failed twice, passed the third time, and am now the Office Managing Partner of the Los Angeles office of my firm.  This has been an incredible experience.


Sunday, November 9, 2014

November Bar-Result Worries (It's That Time of Year Again)

At this time every year, my blog tends to be on fire.

My readers are nervous.  You don't know whether the Friday before Thanksgiving is going to ruin your life or fulfill your dreams.  I get it.

I know that bar examiners will fret constantly until the time arrives when you check your results.  The fact is that about half of you will pass and the other half will not.  For those of you who do not pass, I need to impress upon you that, although failing the bar totally sucks, it is not the end.  Trust me.  I've been there.

It is very, very possible to pass the California Bar after failing it.  I failed twice and passed it on my third shot.  One professor (whom I love dearly) told me that I was an anomaly because (1) she thought there was no way that I would have failed to begin with (thank you) and (2) it is very difficult to pass on the third try or beyond.

The key for me, though, was to finally figure out precisely how to write for the bar.  Most people fail on the writing, not the MBE.  (Again, for the MBE, I recommend PMBR through Kaplan; particularly, I recommend the combination course. Courses can be found here.  I receive absolutely nothing for promoting this, by the way; it's just what worked for me.)

For the writing, you need to understand that there is a particular way to write the exam.  I have explicit writing tips here.  I explain how I passed the California Bar Exam (CBX for short) here (this post does not go into as much detail about the writing, but I talk about the MBE, the Performance Tests, and the essays; I also talk about test anxiety).

For now, since there is nothing that you can do to change whatever the result will be, I suggest that you spend this time with friends... hopefully, non-law-school friends.  Talk with your friends about what is going on in their lives.  Keep the focus off of you.  Relax if at all possible.  If you drink, enjoy some wine or something.  If you meditate, do that.

Point being: Please don't work yourselves into a frenzy.  Stress is called the Silent Killer, and that's not going to be good for anyone.  If you are going to pass, then all of this worry is for nothing.  If you're going to fail, then your worrying right now isn't going to help with that.  You will simply need to get back on that horse and tackle this monster of an exam again.  And you can do it.  If I did it, anyone can do it.